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The Real Flex After Opening a Bar, Restaurant, or Hotel

by Doug Radkey

A jewel-encrusted, gold-decorated clock inside a bank vault

Your time is a real luxury, and how you use it is a real flex. AI-generated image.

Walk into any bar, restaurant, or boutique hotel during its first year of business and you’ll see the same story play out over and over.

An owner is behind the bar on a Friday night. Or in the kitchen on a Saturday brunch rush. Or bouncing between rooms to check housekeeping on a sold-out weekend.

They’re exhausted, and they’re often proud of it.

They’ll tell you, with a weary smile: “Yeah, I’ve been pulling 70-hour weeks. That’s just what it takes in this business.”

Let me be brutally honest: that’s not a flex. That’s a warning sign.

The Illusion of Hustle

Somewhere along the way, the hospitality industry adopted the dangerous belief that working yourself to the bone is the only path to success.

Over the years, we’ve glamorized the grind. We glorified the sleepless nights. We made it seem noble to trade years of your life in exchange for a shot at breaking even.

And far too many independent operators are still buying into this story. They go into the start-up phase expecting to work 60–80 hours a week, and they wear it like a badge of honor.

Here’s the truth: burning yourself out is not a strategy.

A Story too Familiar

On a recent success session with a client, a new operator proudly told me their plan: “I’ll just work 70 hours a week for the first year. That’ll help me keep payroll costs down.”

I had to stop them. This mindset is the exact reason thousands of great concepts fail before they ever get the chance to stabilize and scale.

Allow me to provide some clarity: Time is not a substitute for strategy. Sweat is not a replacement for systems. Anguish will never be mistaken for leadership.

When you walk into your new business with the intention of being its hardest-working employee, you’ve already put a ceiling on your growth.

The Real Flex

The real flex isn’t grinding 80 hours, it’s running your business at 40 hours.

The actual flex is spending your time orchestrating people, processes, and profits instead of drowning in the daily grind.

It’s working on the business, not being trapped inside it.

Because let’s face it—the hospitality industry doesn’t reward those who simply work harder. Victory and the rewards go to those who work smarter.

If you look around at the brands that are truly winning I guarantee you their owner is not an employee within their own business.

Why Systems are Sexy

I’ll tell you what’s really impressive. Hint: It’s not the exhausted owner mopping the floor at 2 a.m. after a 15-hour shift.

What’s impressive is the owner who can leave at 6 p.m. on a Friday, knowing their team has everything under control. It’s the operator who enjoys dinner with their family while their systems ensure consistency and control inside the venue.

That’s the difference between chaos and clarity. Between “being busy” and building wealth. And the bridge between those two worlds? Playbooks. Systems. Structure.

Playbooks Before Pain

Every hospitality business starts with energy. That’s not the problem. The problem is, too many start with energy instead of a plan.

A one-page “business plan.” The infamous generic template from the bank. A few numbers scrawled on a napkin. Basic outputs from AI.

That’s not a business model, that’s wishful thinking.

Playbooks are what separate the hopeful from the profitable. They create alignment, and anticipate risk. They prepare you for staffing issues, supply chain hiccups, and margin pressures. Playbooks prepare you for everything else that will test you.

Without playbooks, your business owns you. With playbooks, you own the business.

The Psychology of Leadership

Hospitality isn’t just about food, drink, or rooms. It’s about people, and people follow energy.

If your energy screams “burnt out, stressed, unavailable,” your team absorbs that. In turn, they’ll also burn out. They’ll make more mistakes. You’ll suffer frequent and constant churn.

However, if your energy communicates clarity, presence, and balance, your team mirrors it. They’ll rise to meet the standard. They’ll take ownership, and they’ll perform.

Leadership isn’t about working the most hours, it’s about creating an environment where others can win by exceeding expectations.

No one wins in a business run on desperation and exhaustion.

The Math of Misery

Let’s get practical. Let’s say that you save $5,000 a month by cutting labor and doing the work yourself. Sounds smart, right?

Until you realize what you’ve traded for it: your time, your health, and your ability to scale.

This is because while you’re buried in the kitchen, you’re not refining the guest journey. You’re not analyzing your data, and crafting strategy. You’re not building partnerships.

All you’re doing is saving pennies while losing thousands to millions of dollars.

The real flex isn’t a lean payroll, it’s a lean operator. Being able to step away for a week—even a month—confident that the business will perform exactly as designed? That’s the real flex.

Rewriting the Badge of Honor

It’s time to retire the old badge of honor. The “I worked 80 hours this week” story doesn’t impress anyone anymore.

Now, the flex is sustainability. The flex is empowerment. The flex is financial freedom and the luxury of time.

Because if your business only survives when you sacrifice yourself, you don’t own a business. You’ve given yourself a job with terrible hours and higher risk.

True ownership is building something that can crush it without you being in the trenches.

The Power of Why

So, why does this matter?

Because hospitality is not just an industry. When you really think about it, it’s a lifestyle. And if you destroy yourself in the process, you destroy your ability to lead, to innovate, and to grow.

The “why” is simple.

This isn’t about ego. It isn’t about showing the world how much punishment you can endure. Your aim should be to show the world what happens when clarity meets courage, when strategy meets execution, and when vision is supported by systems.

That’s what sets you apart.

Results that Speak

I’ve seen it firsthand: Operators who commit to playbooks, systems, and mindset shifts.

They’re operators who don’t just open doors and settle for average, they stay open and exceed everyone’s expectations.

These operators:

attract investors because they exude confidence and control;
build teams that stick around because the culture is sustainable;
deliver experiences that scale because the foundation is strong; and
build lives worth living, lives in which family, personal health, and travel aren’t luxuries but standards.

That’s the kind of success that matters.

Final Word

If your dream is worth the investment, it’s worth doing right. And doing it right doesn’t mean grinding yourself into long-term health problems.

The real flex after opening isn’t telling the world how many hours you’ve worked. An actual flex is showing the world how little you have to work because your systems, your team, and your strategy are doing the heavy lifting.

So, let’s stop wearing burnout as a badge of honor. Let’s start showing the world what true hospitality leadership really looks like.

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Boutique Brand StandardX to Debut in February

by David Klemt

Like The Standard’s logo, this letter X is upside-down.

Boutique hotel standard The Standard will debut its new brand, StandardX, in Melbourne when its first property opens in February of this year.

Not only will this new hotel be the first StandardX location to open, it’s also the first Standard hotel to open in Australia.

This new boutique hotel brand follows a growing and notable trend within the space. Many hotel groups are focusing on launching brands and imprints that focus on locality.

These brands aim to honor local cultures, striving to serve locals and their communities along with tourists. In fact, some of these brands appear more interested in locals than visitors.

Beyond staycations, these hotels work to gain buy-in from locals in several ways. One of the most obvious is through F&B programs. These new(er) brands seek to menu food and drink items that are authentic to their locations. Likewise, nightlife experiences.

However, it goes deeper than that. Many of these hotels welcome locals to use communal spaces for meetings, art installations, and more. The goal is to establish themselves as a pillars in the communities in which they operate. If done right—deeper than a thin veneer of local support—these hotels prove their locale loyalty.

All that said, only time will tell if StandardX Melbourne will find support in the brand’s chosen Melbourne neighborhood, Fitzroy. On paper, however, it should be a perfect match.

Two Decades of Cool, and Counting

The first Standard opened on the Sunset Strip in Los Angeles in 1999. It takes a lot of work be effortlessly cool, and the Standard Hollywood achieved that standard upon opening.

Artists, celebrities, people who wanted to see and be seen… All could be found at the Standard Hollywood. The hotel’s Rooftop bar and pool became one of LA’s hottest hotspots, a seemingly endless party featuring a seemingly endless parade of the cool and connected.

Starting life in 1967 as the Thunderbird Motel, the Standard Hollywood appears in Sex and the City, Entourage, Mortdecai, and Ocean’s Twelve. One of the property’s most notable details, one that undoubtedly generated coverage, whispers, and social media attention, was “The Box.”

This was a living art installation behind reception. Fifteen feet long, it was a box in which models lounged as guests checked in and navigated the lobby.

After a successful and impactful run of over a decade, the Standard Hollywood closed its doors at the start of 2022. While that meant the brand left California completely, the Standard operates seven properties across the globe, with plans for more standard Standards to come.

The StandardX hotels will take a minimalist approach while maximizing the Standard’s view on hospitality.

“This was an opportunity to return to raw, unbridled simplicity that was accessible to the next generation traveler looking to experience a city through the lens of The Standard brand,” said Standard International’s CEO, Amber Asher, in an interview with Travel + Leisure.

Considering how the Standard brand is associated with all things cool, it’s no surprise that their first foray into Australia is one of the coolest neighborhoods in the world.

Position, Position, Position

Yes, I know the maxim is, “Location, location, location.” Well, I’m being clever. See? See how clever I am? Am I cool yet?

Clearly, the Standard has put in the work to be positioned as one of the coolest brands in the hospitality, accommodation, travel, and leisure spaces.

So, it makes sense that they’ve done their homework and designed a brand and selected a location in keeping with that position.

We can argue whether or not being deemed “cool” makes or breaks your status as cool some other time. The fact is, Fitzroy is considered more than just one of the coolest neighborhoods in Victoria. It’s held up as more than just one of the coolest neighborhoods in Australia. Fitzroy is one of the coolest neighborhoods in the world.

The neighborhood is celebrated for its eclectic nature, local pubs, fantastic indie restaurants and boutiques, and killer nightlife. So, again, the StandardX making its debut there is fitting.

Characterized by 125 minimalist rooms, “cultural programming,” and compelling F&B, the StandardX Melbourne is clearly on a mission to establish itself as the coolest of the cool hotels in Australia.

Two F&B venues, BANG and the Roof, will serve up Thai-inspired dishes and “authentic Mexican,” with the latter accessible only to guests. That exclusivity and of itself will likely make the Roof a sought-after nightlife destination in short order.

Oh, and The Box is back. In a nod to a design feature and installation that separated the Standard from the rest, The Box is the property’s retail venue.

After Melbourne, StandardX is aiming to position itself in Bangkok, with Brooklyn and Austin to follow. Look at where the brand is headed and one thing is clear: their chasing the coolest scenes.

Image: Jen Theodore on Unsplash

The Real Flex After Opening