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Why Your Inner Circle Matters

Why Your Inner Circle Matters

by Jennifer Radkey

Is your inner circle creating sparks of inspiration, or burning you down?

In the world of hospitality, where every interaction counts, there’s one factor that could be influencing your success more than you realize: the people with whom you surround yourself.

As a hospitality professional, you work in highly social environments, so it’s essential to understand the impact your inner circle has on your mindset, and the success of your business.

How can the energy and attitudes of those around you shape your success? And how can being intentional about your relationships elevate both your personal and professional life?

Let’s take a closer look.

The Power of Influence

We’ve all heard the saying, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”

It’s a concept that rings true in both personal and professional settings. In the hospitality industry, where relationships and team dynamics are crucial, the people you spend your time with can have a major impact on your mindset.

Your inner circle can either lift you up or drag you down, influencing your thoughts, behaviors, and even your beliefs about what’s possible. When you need to maintain a positive mindset, this influence can make or break you.

Energy and Attitude: The Contagious Effect

Ever notice how working with someone who’s upbeat and energetic can make a shift fly by? Or how spending time with a negative, cynical colleague can drain your motivation?

The energy people bring to the table is contagious. Over time, it seeps into your mindset.

Think of your mindset like a garden. If you plant yourself in rich, fertile soil—surrounded by positivity, encouragement, and growth—your mindset will flourish. But if your garden is full of weeds—like negativity, doubt, and pessimism—it becomes much harder to grow.

In hospitality, where guest service relies heavily on positivity, allowing negative energy to take root can stifle your personal growth, and your ability to grow a loyal guest base.

As a team leader, your mindset sets the tone for the entire team. Show up to team meetings with a negative mindset and your meetings will sound like reprimands and demands instead of inspiration, growth, and encouragement.

The Role of Supportive Relationships

One of the most powerful ways others influence us is through their support—or lack thereof. In a high-pressure environment, having people around you who believe in your potential, challenge you to improve, and celebrate your wins can be transformative.

Supportive relationships remind you of your goals when you’re feeling down, push you to persevere when things get tough, and keep you focused in the chaos.

On the opposite side, if you’re surrounded by people who doubt your ambitions or criticize your efforts, it can be difficult to stay motivated. In the long run, these negative influences can damage your confidence, and make you question your ability to achieve your goals.

In an industry where confidence is crucial to providing top-notch service and leading successful teams, the people you surround yourself with can either enhance or diminish your sense of worth. By aligning yourself with those who inspire and uplift you, you’ll be better equipped to maintain a positive mindset, even in challenging situations.

Setting Boundaries to Protect Your Mindset

So, how do you ensure that the people around you contribute positively to your mindset and success? It starts with setting boundaries.

Boundaries are essential for protecting your mental and emotional well-being. If someone’s energy is toxic or draining, it’s important to limit the influence they have over you.

In business, where teamwork is essential, setting boundaries might not mean cutting people out of your life completely. However, it does mean being mindful of how much time and energy you invest in relationships that aren’t serving your growth. It also means being aware of the energy of a person when choosing whether to have them join your team or not.

Protecting your mental space ensures that you remain focused on your goals, and can give your best to your team, your guests, and yourself.

Seeking Growth-Oriented People

To thrive in both business and life, it’s essential to seek out people who are growth-oriented; those who are always looking to improve themselves, who push you to think bigger, and who motivate you to take action.

Building a network of ambitious, driven individuals within the hospitality industry can be transformative.

When you surround yourself with people who are passionate about growth, their energy becomes contagious. They’ll challenge you to step outside your comfort zone, pursue new opportunities, and push past self-imposed limits.

Taking Action: Evaluate Your Circle

Take a moment to reflect on the people in your life, particularly within your professional circle.

Who are the five people with whom you spend the most time? How do they make you feel? Do they lift you up, or hold you back? Are they helping you move closer to your goals, or keeping you stagnant?

This exercise can be eye-opening, and it’s an essential step in building a more positive, growth-focused environment for yourself. Remember, only you can choose what mindset you want to adopt, and how you will allow others to influence you.

Final Thoughts: Be Intentional About Your Circle

As a hospitality professional, your mindset is key to your success. The people around you play a major role in shaping it.

Be intentional about surrounding yourself with those who uplift, inspire, and challenge you. Protect your mental space with boundaries, and actively seek out relationships that align with your goals and values.

If you’re looking for a supportive community of like-minded hospitality professionals, join us in The Collective, a group coaching program designed to help you achieve your goals with clarity and confidence. Together, we’ll create an environment that supports both personal and professional growth.

Remember, you have control over who you allow into your life, and how much influence they have. Choose wisely, and watch your success story unfold.

Cheers to personal and professional well-being!

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September 27, 2024by David Klemt David Klemt No Comments

Someone to Rely On: Accountability

Someone to Rely On: Accountability Partners

by Jennifer Radkey

To share or not to share, that is the question. More specifically, should you share your goals with others or should you keep them top secret?

I find there are three different groups of people when it comes to goal setting. There are the people who like to shout their goals from the mountaintop for everyone to hear. Then there are those who share with just a few select people. And, of course, the people who keep their goals entirely to themselves.

Is one approach better than another? The answer to that question depends on who you are telling your goals to, if anyone.

Be Strategic

You need to be strategic with whom you share your goals. Before you tell someone an intended goal you need to consider if sharing with them will affect your chances of reaching it.

There has been quite a lot of research recently on goal setting. One of these studies was done by NYU psychologist Peter Gollwitzer, and it included four tests.

In these tests subjects wrote down their goals, and then worked on them for up to 45 minutes. They were allowed to stop working on their goal at any time. Half of the test subjects kept the goals they had written down to themselves; the other half announced them out loud to the group.

Here’s the interesting thing: Those who had kept their goals to themselves spent the entire 45 minutes working on their goal, and still felt they had a ways to go before reaching it. The study participants who announced their goals to the group averaged only 33 minutes of working on their goal, and felt that they were close to completing it. So, they didn’t feel the need to continue working on it.

Essentially, they gave up on it.

Be Cautious

What does all this suggest? Well, due to how our brains work, sharing our goals gives us the same psychological satisfaction as actually achieving them. Therefore, we don’t do the same amount of hard work to reach them.

Hearing a lot of personal praise from others when we share a goal gives us that hit of satisfaction, making the process of achieving it less necessary. On the opposite end, hearing disapproval of our goals may make us doubt ourselves, and give up before even getting started.

So, should you keep your goals top secret? While research is still being done on this topic, it appears that sharing your goals with carefully selected individuals and reporting on your progress with them can actually aid you in achieving your goals.

You need an accountability partner.

Be Selective

When seeking an accountability partner you want to choose someone who embodies three main traits. They need to be impartial, honest, and positive.

An impartial accountability partner is not personally invested in whether or not you reach your goal. They come from a neutral space, and while they are rooting for you to succeed, there’s nothing in it for them either way.

They are able to provide unbiased observations, and offer a very helpful outsider perspective that often allows for greater clarity.

Friends can serve in this role if they don’t have a personal stake in whether you reach your goal. They would like you to because they want to see you succeed, but there’s nothing in it for them, no matter the outcome.

If your goal is to open a new restaurant, your spouse, as supportive and amazing as they are, may not be the best accountability partner. This is because the outcome of you achieving or not achieving this goal is going to have implications on their own life as well.

An honest accountability partner can be relied on to tell you the truth, and to ask the questions needed for you to be honest with yourself. They don’t tell you what you want to hear; they tell you what you need to hear.

In order to reach goals you need someone who will spark light on reality, someone who will point out what you are doing well, and what you may not be doing competently. They are honest in a helpful way, never in a degrading way. I don’t believe in being brutally honest; we should all be honest while remaining respectful of others.

Be Mindful

Lastly, the best accountability partners have a positive mindset. They will help you seek ways in which you can improve and grow.

A great accountability partner will cheer on your successes, and help you create action plans when reaching your goals becomes challenging. An accountability partner is there to help you thrive, not bring you down.

Effective accountability partners can be difficult to find. This is one reason why the coaching industry has taken off like it has. A good life coach becomes an accountability partner, a sounding board, and creates space for self-discovery and planning.

Unless you are organized, resilient, and dedicated to taking action, you may want to share your goals with an accountability partner who can help you stay focused and motivated along the way.

As for the social media blasts sharing your newest goals…maybe hold off on those until you have reached the goal. As good as it may feel to share with everyone, you may actually be doing more harm than good.

Cheers to personal and professional growth!

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August 19, 2024by David Klemt David Klemt No Comments

Mindfulness Monday: Believe in Your Vision

Mindfulness Monday: Believe in Your Vision

by Jennifer Radkey

Belief is a powerful thing, a commanding and inspiring force that draws us to people who believe in their purpose or their dream wholeheartedly.

Right now, you probably have a dream, a vision for your future or your business’ future. You could go after that dream on your own. However, at some point you are going to need someone else to believe in you and your vision.

That belief, that buy in from others, will help you build your team, secure funding, and gain personal support.

If you have a vision that you want others to believe in, whether a vision for the future of your business, yourself, your community, or your family, you need to believe in it first yourself.

Doubt can be sensed. Uncertainty clouds clarity.

Before asking others to believe in and support your vision, stop and ask yourself if you truly believe in it. If not, what is stopping you?

Start there. Tackle your own uncertainties before sharing the vision with those you need to believe in you.

Alignment

So what is blocking you from truly believing in your vision?

Most likely your thoughts, mindset, and actions aren’t aligned with your vision or goals. When this occurs, you wind up sabotaging yourself.

Sometimes, we do this wittingly. However, we most often sabotage ourselves unknowingly.

For example, if you believe you are undeserving, or if your self-worth is low, you can’t believe in your vision 100 percent. Do you have thoughts similar to “I don’t think I’ll be able to pull this off,” or “be realistic, no one will ever support this dream of mine”? If so, your thoughts and mindset are not in alignment with your goals.

It’s possible you have a checklist of actions you need to complete for you to realize your dream. If you haven’t checked anything off in months, if you’re procrastinating rather than taking purposeful action, your actions are not aligned with your vision.

You need to stop standing in your own way. We all need to be mindful and stop sabotaging ourselves.

First Steps

If you have low confidence or sense of self-worth, that’s where to start. Begin by looking at ways to boost your self-image. The more you believe you are worthy, the more you will believe in your vision.

What else can stand in your way of believing in your vision? Lack of knowledge and fear of the unknown.

We see this often through our work at KRG Hospitality. Clients come to us with a vision to open a new restaurant, bar, or hotel. And while the visions are solid, many people lack operational knowledge—and therefore lack confidence in themselves to believe that their concept will be successful.

One proven solution is to complete a detailed feasibility study for our client. Feasibility studies are amazing tools that not only prove your vision and concept, but also build confidence through the power of knowledge.

Knowing exactly why a specific business will work in a certain market (or should be located elsewhere) empowers a client to understand how their concept will perform in the real world. Knowledge is power.

When you remove an obstacle as daunting as the unknown, fear subsides. You are able to focus and develop an unwavering, justified belief, and others will take note.

The Power of Belief

Truly believing in your vision will not only help others believe in it too, but it will create a ripple effect of other positive attributes.

Belief boosts resilience, and increases determination and willpower. You will view setbacks as temporary, and challenges as opportunities to shift your mindset, and grow.

Motivation will increase, and you will become less risk averse. As you step out of your comfort zone to pursue your vision, you will, ultimately, end up inspiring others while inspiring yourself.

It’s true, not everyone will believe in your dreams. You don’t need everyone to believe in them. All you need is a handful of supporters to turn vision into reality.

But to inspire those few, you will first need to inspire yourself.

So, go ahead and choose the dreams worth going after. Dedicate yourself to those dreams—you’ve got this!

Cheers to professional and personal well-being!

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