8 Traits Quantify Good

by David Klemt

We took a look at what traits may make a bar, restaurant, or hotel cool. Now, we’re turning our focus to what would make one “good.”

Similarly to cool, it can be easier to identify good than to sit down and quantify it. That is to say, most of us sense goodness better than we describe goodness.

But what meaning of “good” am I using as a form of measurement? For this article, understand that I’m not using the words “good” or “goodness” in the context of rating a restaurant or bar, or its F&B items.

Rather, I’m going the direction of the article I based on the “Cool People” experiment. If we can quantify cool as a person, we can a bar, restaurant, or hotel’s coolness. Therefore, we should be able to do the same to measure a venue or brand’s goodness.

Drilling down further, I’m also not really looking at goodness to judge a brand’s ethics. I like restaurants and bars that implement SOPs that reduce waste. And I think it’s important for hotels to operate in sustainable manners.

However, we can all argue over responsible, ethical operations and whether that makes a brand good. Can a brand be performative but still good? If the result is the same, does it matter if the company doesn’t really care?

Instead, I’m using the “Cool People” experiment’s own attribute measurements, and looking at how they can apply to a hospitality business.

Agreeable#

Three attributes scored in the “Cool People” experiment were part of a Big Five Personality Traits* list. This is one of them, along with being conscientious and calm.

If someone is agreeable, they’re sympathetic and warm. They’re perceived as compassionate, cooperative, and kind. People who are perceived as highly agreeable are regarded as empathetic, altruistic, and focused on maintaining positive relationships.

To me, that sounds a lot like a definition of hospitality. The spirit of hospitality is selflessness, kindness, helpfulness, and a devotion to welcoming all.

*Anyone curious to learn more can search for “A very brief measure of the Big-Five personality domains” by Samuel D. Gosling, Peter J. Rentfrow, and William B. Swann, Jr., published in the Journal of Research in Personality in 2003.

Calm#

A calm person is emotionally stable. Perhaps the best way to look at this attribute is through its opposite: neuroticism.

If someone’s neurotic, they’re emotionally reactive. Stress and change are seen as threatening by neurotic people. Due to poor coping mechanisms, someone who’s neurotic may think less clearly about what they’re experiencing, and therefore make worse and worse decisions.

On the other hand, a calm person retains their composure, handling stressful situations rationally and gracefully. They’re able to make good, effective decisions in the midst of stress and tension.

So, a calm restaurant or bar doesn’t make its guests feel negative emotions. The vibe may be energetic rather than placid, but it doesn’t feel anxious or angry. Guests who visit a calm hospitality venue won’t be overcome with the desire to leave; they’ll feel comfortable and safe.

This is an attribute that’s certainly tied to culture. If leadership is reactive or emotionally unstable, the rest of the team will feel it, and that will be felt by guests. The same can be said for problematic staff that infect the team with their reactivity and negativity.

A stable, supportive leadership team that hires for and nurtures a positive, healthy team will create a calm atmosphere for guests.

Conforming#

Let’s look at how the “Cool People” team presented this attribute to respondents.

• This person believes that people should do what they are told.
• He/she follows rules at all times, even when no one is watching.
• It is important for this person to always behave properly.
• He/she avoids doing anything people would say is wrong.

At first glance, this sounds like it’s describing an authoritarian: do as your told, and don’t deviate from the rules.

Now, let’s put “conforming” into the context of a well-run bar, restaurant, or hotel.

Ruling with an iron fist is poor leadership. Identifying a brand’s values and mission, and adhering to them every step of the way is real leadership.

Crafting a hiring and onboarding materials, including an employee manual that includes clear SOPs for every role, is the type of conformity that’s healthy for a hospitality business.

The benefit of everyone knowing what’s expected of them, and believing leadership walks the talk of values and mission, is consistency. And consistency is the key result of this form of conformity.

That said, leadership needs to strike a balance between conformity and adaptability. The team should adhere to SOPs without being robotic; empower them to adapt should they find themselves in a service recovery situation.

Conscientious#

This is a slippery one. A person who’s perhaps too conscientious can be perceived as obstinate, refusing to change a course of action. People who have low conscientiousness may be viewed as unreliable and sloppy.

The ideal balance, then, is someone who’s reliable and organized, and wants to complete their tasks efficiently.

Were a restaurant or bar to be perceived as conscientious, the team would be known for its top-level service. That impeccable service—including service recovery—would, of course, be linked directly to being conforming, calm, and agreeable.

In short, a conscientious restaurant would be known for its reliable service. A conscientious bar is led by an organized team. Such a hotel would be a well-oiled machine that develops and nurtures a team committed to efficiency.

Secure#

There are a couple of ways to view a bar, restaurant, or hotel through the lens of security.

A hospitality venue perceived as secure makes guests and staff feel safe and comfortable. Even those in rougher locations can be secure if the operators do the work to make guests feel safe once they’ve stepped through their doors.

That feeling of security must also extend to staff. The team needs to know and feel that leadership sees their value, treats them fairly, has their back when guests are being difficult or making them feel uncomfortable, and enforces rules consistently.

Security can also take the form of reliability. Putting in the work to be a guest’s “safe” option can pay big dividends. There’s security and long-term success in becoming someone’s “third spot.”

It’s fun to innovate and be edgy. However, it’s also important to be familiar and approachable. Security as reliability and consistency is how a bar, restaurant, or hotel encourages a guest’s second visit, and then the all-too-important third visit that transforms them into a regular.

In either sense of the word, security is a key attribute for a good venue.

Traditional#

I’m going to admit that I struggled with this one. The way it was presented to participants of the “Cool People” experiment doesn’t appear to translate directly to bars, restaurants, or hotels.

Half of the measures for this attribute focus on religion explicitly. It’s also presented as the antithesis to hedonism, an attribute associated with people perceived as cool.

Okay, so how can I relate religion to hospitality? Respectfully, I hope. As I view its essence, religion can be defined by community, guidance and belief, and practices.

Traditionally, hospitality is about building and serving communities. Hospitality workers are also a community and in and of themselves.

As far as beliefs and guidance, hospitality is driven by service, generosity, and an authentic desire to welcome and accept others.

Those beliefs are reinforced by hospitality professionals who practice:

• selflessness and sacrifice;
• creating memories through kindness;
• providing what guests want;
• anticipating and honoring their needs; and
• being respectful, friendly, and welcome everyone.

The way I see it, all hospitality venues that are welcoming and committed to hospitality are traditional.

Of course, there’s also the way we all perceive bars, restaurants, and hotels. Even the most innovative, experimental, and experiential concepts (The Aviary in Chicago, for example) are traditional in the sense that guests have an idea of what they should expect when they walk through the doors.

Universalistic#

“This person thinks it is important that every person in the world be treated equally.” That’s how someone defined by this attribute could be measured, per the “Cool People” experiment team.

Let’s be honest, treating every guest as equal and equally important is the baseline for hospitality.

People can choose to spend their time and money at any bar or restaurant. Or they can decide against doing that at all, stay home, and make their own food and drinks. The same is true of lodging and accommodation: there are plenty of motels, hotels, and resorts someone can visit.

The question is: Why should they spend their time and money at your bar, restaurant, or hotel?

The answer is: Because you treat every guest with respect, and make them feel welcome and special.

Make someone feel cool and they’ll make return visits. They’ll tell their family, friends, coworkers, tourists, and people online to check out your spot. Make every guest feel relevant, seen, and heard.

It’s non-negotiable for a good restaurant, and that’s what makes a great hospitality brand and venue universalistic. If you’re not interested in welcoming everyone and treating them as equals, you’re in the wrong business.

Warm#

Warmth is one of the core elements of hospitality. The people who conducted the “Cool Person” experiment may as well have been talking about a hospitality pro when they included the measures of this attribute:

• it is important to this person to help people;
• they care for other people;
• they’re loyal to his/her friends; and
• this person devotes himself/herself to people that are close to him/her.

With very few minor revisions, that could absolutely describe the ideal candidate in a bar, restaurant, or hotel job listing.

It’s crucial to hospitality, and it walks hand in hand with being welcoming and agreeable.

We can train just about anyone on the technical aspects of a given hospitality role. That’s what onboarding, training, and ongoing training is all about: developing and reinforcing skills.

That’s why the prevailing wisdom from successful hospitality operators and leaders is to hire for personality. Look for genuine warmth, extraversion, and the personality traits you need for your concept’s team.

Final Sip#

Can a hospitality business be perceived as good in similar fashion to a person?

Perhaps. I’ll say that this has been a bit of an odd exercise.

Of course, finding out if I can attribute “goodness” to a bar, restaurant, or hotel has also been fun for me. I hope these two articles—one on quantifying cool, one on measuring good—have been entertaining and compelling for you, as well.

As it stands, I’ve got one more in me. We’ve got a series! Cheers!

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