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Six Traits Quantify Cool

Six Traits Quantify Cool

by David Klemt

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It’s difficult to visualize cool, so here’s a dog wearing doggles on a sportbike outside of a bar. Cool!

A team of researchers published the results of an experiment spanning several years, nearly 6,000 participants, and a dozen countries to quantify cool.

The international team’s paper, “Cool People,” was published by the American Psychological Association’s Journal of Experimental Psychology.

Alphabetically, the respondents are from: Australia, Chile, China (mainland and Hong Kong), Germany, India, Mexico, Nigeria, Spain, South Africa, South Korea, Turkey, and the United States.

The team’s research identifies six attributes of being “cool.” Interestingly, while they focused on 13 different regions, attributes associated with being cool are found to be surprisingly stable.

For the most part, cool people share these characteristics across several countries and cultures.

“Coolness is socially constructed such that a person, object, or behavior is cool if people agree that it is cool and uncool if they agree that it is not. Thus, it is less important to know how scholars have defined coolness than to understand what people perceive to be cool and uncool. We therefore operationally define coolness as whether or not a person is subjectively perceived to be cool by an observer.

Per the Cool People researchers, this is fairly universal.

Relevance to Hospitality

I’ve taken a look at “cool” before. My conclusions were that it’s an amorphous concept, and that most people know something is cool in the moment. So, it’s interesting to see that researchers tackled the topic over the course of five or more years.

“Okay, great,” you may be thinking. “What does this have to do with my business?”

Hospitality is, by its nature, social. Coolness is a social construct, and society (and the cultural subsets therein) decide what’s cool.

People support brands and businesses they think are cool; it’s really that simple. Being deemed cool by a significant number of guests is a key to long-term success for most brands.

This experiment inspired me to look at restaurants, bars, and hotels through the lens of the Cool People experiment. Can we apply the six Cool People attributes to a restaurant, bar, or hotel?

Let’s dive in, or whatever a cool person would say. I guess they wouldn’t have to say anything; they’d make their move and people would follow.

Extraverted/Extroverted

In simple terms, extroverts are perceiveda key word here—as sociable and outgoing. They enjoy being around other people, and want to interact in social settings.

If your restaurant, bar, nightclub, or hotel were a “cool” person, it would display characteristics of an extrovert: sociable, assertive, friendly, makes friends easily, talkative/communicative, enjoys groups, finds socializing energizing, and many others.

(Extraversion versus introversion goes much deeper, psychologically speaking, and I’m keeping things much less complicated here. Introverts can absolutely have the characteristics above.)

Were your venue and staff seen as extroverted (and therefore cool), it would be perceived by guests as welcoming and sociable, at the least. The experience would tell a story, and make guests feel like friends rather than being strictly transactional.

Look appealing? Sound like your business? It should, because that’s hospitality at its core.

Achieving this attribute requires leadership to make the right decisions, from branding and marketing to hiring, onboarding, and training, and also curating the vibe during every daypart.

Hedonistic

Hedonism is indulgence. It’s a focus on pleasure, and an aversion to pain.

Understand this: People can eat, drink, relax, and sleep at home. They don’t really need to visit your bar, restaurant, or hotel; they want to visit your business. People want to socialize, see, and be seen, to feel accepted and special.

Of course, you and your team have to make them want to visit and spend their time and money at your place. They want to leave their homes and be made to feel cool and special, but you need to do the work to lure them to your venue.

A hedonistic restaurant, bar, nightclub or hotel delivers a memorable experience that fulfills guest desires and surpasses their expectations (delivering pleasure). Hedonism in this sense also means ensuring a guest’s exterior stressors melt away while they’re spending time with you and your team (removing pain points).

In my opinion, truly cool people make others feel cool. So, you and your team need to do the same. Look at your touch points. Review your leadership’s approach to service recovery. Be honest about whether your team feels empowered to be themselves while adhering to your SOPs and expectations.

Why? Because your guests want to feel cool. They want to feel relevant, important, seen, and heard. Does your standard of service make guests feel cool?

Show your guests that you think they’re cool. Indulge their wants and needs, unreasonably so if possible. In turn, they’ll want to indulge their desire to socialize, eat, and drink at your place.

Powerful

In the context of your hospitality brand, powerful can be defined as influential.

Does your community view your bar or restaurant favorably? Do the locals in your market support and spend time in your hotel?

If you’ve led your business to becoming a destination for surrounding markets, it’s powerful. And if people aspire to be seen at your business, that’s influence, and therefore power.

Has your restaurant or bar become a destination for people in other cities, states, provinces, and even other countries? Congratulations, you and your team have built, and are running, a powerful concept.

The same is true if your business can scale successfully; a concept that resonates strongly with the public is powerful. (Interestingly, building a brand that can scale but doesn’t is also cool.)

Create a legacy brand, lead your business to achieve long-term success, and you’ll have built a powerhouse.

Adventurous

People perceive as cool any person who’s willing to try new things, and does so often. The reasoning is simple: adventure is cool.

Travel and exploration are cool, and all over social media. Overlanding—self-reliant travel to remote destinations—has surged in popularity over the past few years. The ADV (adventure) motorcycle segment is expected to grow by a billion dollars year over year for the next eight years.

People want adventure, excitement, and new experiences. Hospitality brands are positioned uniquely to fulfill this desire.

Offering guests a unique spin on even a single F&B item can be adventurous. Introducing guests to a new-to-them cuisine is you and your team taking them on an adventure. The same is true for unique amenities, or creating a new way for a guest to experience a space.

Interesting glassware, compelling F&B pairings, eccentric ingredients and presentations, distinct menus, cuisines not otherwise presented in a given market… Even how menus or checks are dropped can deliver an adventure.

Adventurous people are seen as cool. You know what’s even cooler? Being the adventure. Strive to become an escape and escapade.

Open

Along with being adventurous, cool people are viewed as “open.”

Curiosity is cool. Being open to new experiences and ideas is cool. Welcoming people from all walks of life is cool.

This characteristic of coolness is represented in multiple ways in hospitality. A restaurant or bar team can at once be open to new ideas internally, and provide the opportunity for guests to experience new items and experiences.

Empower your team to share their thoughts on your brand, marketing, menus, promotions, and the guest experience. Speaking generally, different generations and groups have different opinions on what’s cool, so ask them for their input.

Be open to change, embrace it, and see how quickly your restaurant, bar, or hotel becomes the cool place to seek out new experiences.

Autonomous

Ask someone if conformity is cool and they’ll likely pull a face and say no. Of course, that’s somewhat ironic since most people want to beand want to be part ofwhat’s deemed cool.

Trying to be cool is inherently uncool; we expect cool people to be so effortlessly. It’s a double-edged sword, with cool on one side of the blade and uncool (or cringe, if you prefer) on the other.

Going against the grain, circumventing expectations, and doing their own thing? That’s what cool people do.

It makes sense, then, that a restaurant or bar that doesn’t do and offer what every other place is doing (autonomy) is cool.

From the researchers: “[I]f coolness motivates the spread of innovation, then coolness should be associated with creating and diffusing new ideas.”

To be blunt, most restaurants, bars, and hotels are selling the same shit. In recent years, some big personalities in the industry have been saying this quite plainly. One was on the Bar Hacks podcast recently.

So, if we’re all selling the same things to our guests, how can any concept be seen as autonomous, and therefore cool? It comes down to strict adherence to our vision, a commitment to developing a fully realized brand, our team’s focus on the guest experience, and unique interpretation of menu items.

Of course, that last element can go sideways, slipping away from “cool” and spiraling into confusion or frustration.

Give your guests the cool, unique experience only you and your team can deliver, but make it approachable and understandable. Otherwise, you’ve given them homework, not an escape from their everyday lives.

Cool vs. Good

There’s an additional, interesting component to the Cool People experiment.

Within their paper the researchers reference a Canadian experiment. The study found that Canadian students, at least up to 2012, “frequently” saw cool people as those who demonstrated five characteristics of admirable people: friendliness, competence, desirability, attractiveness, and trendiness.

(Personally, I’m disappointed Canada wasn’t included in the Cool People experiment. I’m comfortable saying the rest of the KRG Hospitality team joins me in my dissatisfaction.)

Cool People researchers posit that that cool people should be admired by others for their status as a cool person. But that leads to other questions: Shouldn’t we admire good people? If so, is cool the same as good?

The researchers were compelled to address those questions during their experiment. Put simply, they found that cool people are capable of being “good.” However, they’re defined, for lack of a better word, as being extraverted, hedonistic, powerful, adventurous, open, and autonomous. You’ll notice “good” isn’t on that list.

So, no, cool is not the same as good, as far as this particular experiment’s findings show.

You’re probably wondering now what characteristics are attributed to good people. Well, you’re in luck, because the Cool People researchers included them in their experiment: conforming, traditional, secure, warm, agreeable, universalistic, conscientious, and calm.

What would the perception of being “good” look like for a restaurant, bar, or hotel? I may just tackle that question in an upcoming article.

Cheers!

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Who Really Owns the Kitchen?

Who Really Owns the Kitchen?

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Who owns the kitchen? One of our favorites, Chef Brian Duffy, has some thoughts, and they boil down to taking ownership of the systems.

His 2025 Bar & Restaurant Expo session title, “Owners & Chefs: Who Owns the Kitchen?” sounded like Chef Duffy was teeing up a showdown: chef versus operator. But he had something else in mind.

During his session, Chef Duffy addressed ownership not as a title, but as an operating philosophy.

If you ask him who really owns the kitchen, his answer will be simple: Whoever takes responsibility for its systems.

Chef Duffy isn’t just theorizing from the pass. The chef and operator has opened more than 100 venues, and actively oversees ten restaurants each week. His experience and position in the business have helped him develop a uniquely sharp eye for what separates kitchen chaos from culinary consistency.

Spoiler alert: It’s not talent. It’s not even creativity.

What matters is taking ownership of systems, communication, and accountability. Are talent and creativity important in the kitchen? Absolutely. Will a restaurant survive (and thrive) without the development and strict adherence to effective systems? I think we all know the answer to that question.

Assumption Leads to Dysfunction

If you’ve ever attended a Duffified education session or demo, you know he jumps straight in. He’s passionate about this business. He loves talking about it, sharing his knowledge, sharing new ideas, and collaborating on ways to move the industry forward.

So, while I wasn’t fully expecting Chef Duffy’s opening provocation, it didn’t entirely surprise me that he kicked off his session with it: Restaurant owners are expecting too much without saying anything at all.

“They assume chefs and kitchen managers just know what to do,” he said. “Daily, weekly, monthly.”

That assumption is where dysfunction takes root.

Duffy plans six weeks out because that’s what it takes to run a kitchen like a business. With that proactive approach to lead time, he can lock in pricing with suppliers, ensure the products he needs are available, give teams time to plan events, schedule staff fairly and effectively, and control costs with precision.

When you don’t plan ahead (or don’t plan far enough ahead), your kitchen becomes reactive. Simply put, reactive kitchens are expensive.

Worse, they’re chaotic. And chaos burns people out.

Daily: Predictable Results

Chef Duffy doesn’t do ambiguity. Anyone who has spoken or worked with him can attest to this truth.

It should come as no surprise, then, that his expectations are decidedly unambiguous. They’re detailed, repeatable, and focused on communication, clarity, and control.

Here’s his daily checklist:

  • POS Counts: Know what you have. Open the line of communication with front-of-house.
  • Tasting: Everyone tastes the specials, cocktails, wines, and even a core menu item daily.
  • Pre-meal: Shift briefings with intention. Share what to sell, what’s 86ed, any kitchen concerns, etc.
  • Prep List: Created at the end of the shift, while everything’s fresh so nothing is missed.
  • Protein Counts: Same timing as the prep list to eliminate guessing on inventory.
  • Daily Recap: Communicate staffing, equipment, prep issues, and anything else those working the next shift should know.

You’ll notice none of these are flashy, and that’s the point: These rituals are how kitchens run efficiently, end of.

Chef Duffy’s clearly communicated expectations are how you reduce waste, avoid surprises, and build team alignment.

Crucially, he has tracked the results of his approach, and says a system like this can shave one to two percent off your costs. That’s a lot of dollars over the course of a year.

Know and Sell

One of Chef Duffy’s biggest irritants? Hearing a server say, “Let me go ask the chef.”

“If a guest asks if they can have a menu item without a certain ingredient, and the server doesn’t know the answer, it means the chef never had that conversation,” he said.

It’s a trust issue, an unforced service error. And it’s preventable.

Chef Duffy makes tasting part of the daily ritual. His teams rotate through core menu items so everyone understands the food. Therefore, they can talk about it like they believe in it.

The result? More confident service, better upsells, and fewer avoidable mistakes.

Let staff know the menu, and then step back and let them sell it.

Start with a Stretch, Not a Spiral

Culture isn’t built by luck or happenstance, it’s modeled. In some cases, it’s modeled physically.

Case in point: Chef Duffy uses pre-meal to reset the tone of the shift, not just brief the team. That includes a moment of breathing, and even light stretching.

“Don’t take last night’s negativity into today’s service,” he says when breathing and stretching with a team.

In high-stress environments, leaders don’t just direct traffic, they set the emotional baseline. That moment of reset might sound small, but it says something big: We show up intentionally.

Weekly: Breathing Room

Chef Duffy doesn’t stop at sharing day-to-day expectations.

Weekly deliverables create space for the kitchen to operate with their team, not against them.

  • Specials: Planned one to two weeks out.
  • Schedules: Also one to two weeks out. Give people time to plan and live their lives.
  • Inventory: Always on Mondays. It’s the cleanest window between Sunday close and Monday service.
  • Management Meeting: Review the past week, preview the next, and talk specials, events, holidays, and team concerns.

Chef Duffy also uses scheduling software that empowers the team to submit availability and day-off requests. Why? Because quality of life matters.

“Give your team a life,” he said.

People stay where they’re respected, and that absolutely, inarguably, non-negotiably includes considering their time.

Contests and Creativity

One of Duffy’s favorite ways to build buy-in? A little friendly competition.

He and I have talked about this on the Bar Hacks podcast, and I’ve shared this competitive approach of his in previous articles.

Like I said earlier, creativity is important; it just has its time and place.

“Go into the walk-in, come up with a special,” he’ll say to the kitchen team.

He’ll cost the special, price it out, and then add a dollar. For every special that sells (usually over a 30-day period), Chef Duffy gives that added dollar to the creator of the menu item.

It’s brilliant in its simplicity: The culinary team engages their creativity, the restaurant gets a low-risk special, and staff are rewarded directly.

That kind of engagement isn’t just fun, it’s a culture builder.

Monthly: Big Picture

Monthly meetings bring the business lens into focus.

For Chef Duffy, that includes:

  • Owner/Leadership Meetings: Discuss sales, budget, events, catering, and marketing.
  • Food & Labor Cost Reviews: Not just reporting numbers, but talking about them to ensure everyone understands the situation.
  • Marketing Roundtables: Let’s not forget that the kitchen is a core element of the brand experience.

There’s no mystery to what’s discussed. Everyone at the table knows what they’re accountable for, and what needs improvement.

Importantly, everyone must also be given the tools to improve. Otherwise, these big-picture sessions are essentially just performative.

The Common Thread

Chef Duffy flies more than 140,000 miles a year checking in on restaurant operations.

So, what’s the most persistent problem he encounters across his travels?

“Operators don’t talk to their teams,” he says.

That’s it. Not bad food (though that’s certainly a problem). Not weak concepts and uninspired menus (also issues, industry-wide). It’s poor communication.

To be honest, that’s such a mundane problem to have, and too many operators are letting it spiral out of control. Want to improve operations? Be clear about their expectations, and transparent about the business.

Communication fixes everything.

Clear communication is also a cost-controlling measure. Put yourself in the shoes of a back- or front-of-house team member. Which do you think inspires more confidence and buy-in, knowing exactly what’s expected of you every day, or having to figure things out as you go without direction? Clear communication is an effective retention tool.

It’s also a core element of consistency.

To that point, this is why Chef Duffy insists on daily, not weekly, prep lists. When lists are weekly, people feel like they’ve got time, and their urgency disappears. Tasks get pushed, and accountability drops.

Whenever a new chef joins one of his kitchens, Chef Duffy requires a manager to sign off on their prep tasks. This isn’t done to just check a box. Instead, this requirement confirms the food is tested, tasted, and good to go.

That’s ownership not in title but in action.

Heed Warning Signs

This is one of the quotes from Chef Duffy’s session that most resonated with me:

“If your head chef or kitchen manager has a problem with over-communication, that’s not your person.’

Too many operators ignore early warning signs in leadership. They tolerate resistance to systems, and avoid hard conversations.

To be blunt, that’s unacceptable. This is, at the end of the day, business. True leaders don’t run away from difficult discussions, they stride confidently toward them; it’s the job.

Red flags don’t get less red if they’re ignored; they start to glow. When left unaddressed, red flags just get more expensive.

Identifying issues is a leadership skill. Having the courage to address them immediately is a leadership skill. Taking ownership of systems is a leadership skill.

Last Bite: Ownership Is a Verb

This wasn’t a session about chefs versus owners; this session was about chefs and owners working together to own their restaurant’s systems.

It was a call to action for anyone leading a kitchen, hiring a chef, or trying to build a better back-of-house culture.

Ownership isn’t about who’s in charge, it’s about who’s committed to clarity, systems, and communication. Ownership is about who shows up consistently for the business: the team, the guests, and the bottom line.

Want to own your kitchen? Take ownership of your systems.

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Cultivating a Legacy Mindset

Cultivating a Legacy Mindset

by David Klemt

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The letter “L” is for building a long-lasting, lucrative legacy. (AI-generated image)

We talk about legacy in restaurant, bar, and hotel brands like it’s something that happens once the awards start rolling in.

But at this year’s Bar & Restaurant Expo, a standout panel turned that idea on its head.

Legacy isn’t something we leave behind; we live our legacy in real time. Every hiring decision. Every shift meeting. Each and every moment we’re engaging with the public, representing our brand. Every awkward moment when a team member calls us out, and we choose whether to get defensive or get better.

And as Gen Z makes up more of our workforce—and, increasingly, our leadership—this mindset isn’t just good culture. A legacy mindset is great business.

Last week, I hypothesized that a growth mindset will help operators set themselves up for success from the outset. This theory is grounded on a few points made by Dave Kaplan about nontraditional capital raises, as well as being prepared to expand even if that never becomes part of the plan.

Part and parcel with a growth mindset is a legacy mindset.

As it happens, a panel of hospitality, operations, beverage, guest experience, artificial intelligence, and space tourism experts assembled during BRE 2025.

This powerhouse blend of operators and innovators included:

Each offered a different perspective on the idea of legacy, coming together to lay out a roadmap for what lasting leadership looks like now.

Legacy is Culture That Lives Beyond You

For Meaghan Dorman, legacy starts with perspective.

Not ego. Not personal mythology. Perspective.

“Legacy is building a shared perspective that can leave your concept and live on its own,” she said.

Take a moment to digest Dorman’s viewpoint.

An operator isn’t just building a concept they control. What they’re creating is a concept others carry forward because they believe in it. The team an operator builds and the guests they work to transform into brand evangelists believe in the brand and the mission.

At least, that’s what operators should do. Ultimately, success depends on whether team members and guests believe in the operator themself.

I take this to be a founder’s versus owner’s mentality. Anyone who can afford to do so can purchase equity in a business, and take a stake in ownership. A founder, however, takes ownership of the brand, mission, innovation…the entire business. That means owning the strategy, successes and failures, and responsibility for driving team members and the business forward.

This is exactly the shift in mindset needed to engage a generation that values transparency, inclusivity, and authenticity.

If the culture can’t thrive without the operator in the room, they’re an owner, not a leader. And if they’re not a leader, they’re not building a legacy.

In fact, what they’ve built is a leash, and they’ve strapped and padlocked it to their leg.

Staff Serves Guests. Management Serves Staff.

Beth Hussey doesn’t pull her punches. She’s refreshingly straightforward with her perspectives on, and passion for, hospitality.

For her, legacy is hospitality at its most fundamental: A value that lives on in others.

Expressing those values and their importance happens through modeling: small, consistent actions that communicate the message, “I’m here for you.”

Hussey takes the radical step of flipping the power dynamic.

“Management serves employees like they serve their guests,” she said.

That one sentence reframes everything. It forces leaders to examine how they show up, particularly when it’s inconvenient.

She also challenged operators to consider whether their training programs are as guest-friendly as they expect their team members to be.

Hussey encouraged the operators and leaders in the room to stop and think about their training processes as if they had just thrown their guests into the same experience. The majority who took the time to consider how they train their staff “probably wouldn’t like it,” she opined.

That’s a gut-check moment for anyone who’s watched new hires get thrown to the wolves. And if many people reading this are being honest with themselves, they’ve done exactly that to new team members at some point in their careers.

The Suggestion Box Question

Hussey doesn’t just talk about feedback. Instead, she builds in real, actionable systems for it

Two weeks before team meetings, Hussey puts out a suggestion box, open to any team member. Before the meeting, she and her leadership team sit down, go through each suggestion, and address them during the meeting.

This doesn’t mean the team always gets their way; not every suggestion gets implemented by leadership. However, the suggestion, good or bad, yay or nay, is addressed. A reason is provided, in front of the team member who suggested it, for the suggestion being embraced or rejected. That’s a powerful message of leadership, teamwork, and valuing the team’s input.

Shifty, interestingly, features a truly anonymous suggestion box. This is a real, anonymous channel that can be reviewed ahead of a team meeting.

However, Hussey has noticed something alarming about this feature.

“Operators have asked us to turn it off, even though it has never once been used for evil,” Hussey noted, to laughter throughout the room. “Why don’t you want honest feedback from employees?”

That question says it all, really. If an operator or member of the leadership team fears their team’s honesty, the problem isn’t the team.

Codifying Culture at Scale Without Killing It

Dave Kaplan knows what it means to build a brand that people believe in—and sometimes, walk away from.

During the panel discussion, he revealed an internal saying about the brand: “Everyone quits Death & Co. at least once.”

That may sound like a negative. However, the key insight is this: Everyone comes back.

That’s legacy in action.

Operating multiple concepts in multiple cities, Kaplan has learned how important it is to codify culture without strangling it. His company’s five core values aren’t just decorative, they’re operational.

These values are applied to hiring, recognition, and even when it’s time to let someone go.

Scaling that culture requires infrastructure. Kaplan shared how they’re developing a company-wide learning management system (LMS), and investing in a tight tech stack to align operations across markets.

That said, tools alone don’t build trust. For that, a leader needs transparency.

When a major operational change is proposed at Death & Co., they open a two-week feedback window. If necessary, they even hold a town hall. This process isn’t just good policy, it’s a direct response to something Kaplan once heard from a long-time team member.

Ronald Fucking McDonald

Kaplan told the story of being a bit surprised—and somewhat frustrated—by the reactions to him visiting a Death & Co. outpost.

To paraphrase the response from a long-term (I believe original) Death & Co. team member addressing Kaplan’s frustration: “You haven’t been around much. You may as well be Ronald Fucking McDonald.”

Brutal, but honest. And exactly the kind of wake-up call too many owners brush off. To his credit, Kaplan took that blunt feedback on board.

He could’ve flexed his title as Dave Fucking Kaplan, if he were that type of person. And he could’ve taken out his frustration on the team members he felt had slighted or at least ignored him. Instead, Kaplan used that reality check as fuel to double down on being present, accountable, and humble.

There it is again: the founder’s mindset.

Here’s the unspoken truth about legacy: It doesn’t care about your title. Legacy cares about how a leader shows up, and how often.

Reverse Mentoring, AI, and the End of Top-Down Leadership

Anyone still asking whether artificial intelligence has a place in hospitality (and building a legacy), Colleen McLeod Garner has a message for you: “Pandora’s Box is already open.”

In other words, AI is taking its place in hospitality, regardless of who agrees with it doing so. Operators can either determine the best ways to implement and succeed with the AI solutions best suited to their operations, or they can fall behind, ultimately finding themselves passed by.

McLeod Garner doesn’t support replacing people with tech. If she did, we at KRG Hospitality wouldn’t agree with her on AI, and I would say so.

Her approach is to enhance human connection through strategic automation. By streamlining ops and freeing up staff from menial tasks, AI empowers staff to spend more time doing what matters: serving guests, supporting each other, and representing the brand.

But McLeod Garner’s real breakthrough insight about leadership? Reverse mentoring.

Flip it, and Reverse It

“Age does not dictate knowledge or leadership,” she said.

In a world where Gen Z employees bring digital fluency and cultural insight to the table, the smartest thing a senior leader can do is listen. That means inviting younger team members into leadership discussions, not as silent observers, but as active participants.

An operator adding reverse mentorship to their leadership toolbox sends a powerful message: “You matter. What you do here matters. Your ideas matter.”

McLeod Garner challenged leaders to ask questions, then shut up and listen—literally.

Ask open-ended questions. Let people until they’ve exhausted the issue on their own. This isn’t done to prove a point about what a great leader an operator is; this simple action shows team members that an operator respects them enough to listen fully, and give their insights careful consideration.

Respect. Empathy. Trust. Those aren’t soft skills, they’re business survival skills. And for Gen Z, and therefore future-proofed businesses and brands, they’re non-negotiable from this point on.

The New Metrics of Leadership

What makes this conversation urgent isn’t just generational turnover. While our industry is facing that issue, what we’re all facing is cultural transformation.

Gen Z, speaking generally, doesn’t tolerate hypocrisy from employers. These team members, admittedly generalizing again, are quick to hold leadership accountable. They’re not impressed by surface-level perks or “cool culture” branding.

They want authenticity, action, and alignment.

Legacy, then, isn’t about what leaders build for themselves. It’s about what they build with, and leave for, their teams.

This commitment to legacy includes:

  • Transparent hiring and promotion processes.
  • Feedback mechanisms that actually lead to change.
  • Recognition systems rooted in core values.
  • Tech that improves but, crucially, doesn’t remove people from the human experience.
  • Intergenerational learning that flows both ways.

None of this is easy. It takes hard work, humility, and long-term commitment. As Kaplan has put it, practicing relentless pursuit until it’s a key component of your everyday life.

As each panelist explained in their own way, the payoff for all the hard work in developing a legacy mindset is real: improved staff and guest retention, stronger culture, and a business that stands for something more than a bottom line.

Last Call: Build a Brand That Outlives You

Legacy doesn’t just mean being remembered. At least, not to me. Legacy means an operator’s impact, and that of their brand, is being repeated.

If team members carry a former employer’s values into their next job, or share an operator’s leadership principles with someone else, or feel changed for the better because they worked with a given operator, that’s a legacy.

Achieving that type of legacy doesn’t take ten or 20 or 30 years. In fact, there’s no set timeline that determines a legacy has been developed. Building a legacy requires presence and perspective. It demands the courage to be the kind of leader a team actually wants to follow.

And if Gen Z in particular has anything to say about legacy in hospitality—and they do—that’s exactly the kind of leadership that will last.

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